The City compared to my real life

Coatsworth

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The football is and has always been a distraction from life for me, all the way from Pleat to Smith.

I wake up each day and check to see that my wife has made it through the night as she lives under the threat of death from Sudden Death Epilepsy. In a bizarre twist, neither of us knew we both had Epilepsy when we first met. Crohn’s Disease would go on to nearly kill me too, but is now just about managed.

In the last three years, my Mother in law has been diagnosed with and is currently in remission from Cancer, my Father in law is awaiting a diagnosis of either Dementia or Alzheimer’s.

My own parents are fighting their own battles too. My Dad is my Mums carer, she was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia with Alzheimer’s in October last year, my Dad then had a fall and broke his ankle last November. Since then he’s had another fall and fractured a bone in his back, been hospitalised and diagnosed with COPD and Mum has been in temporary care since November, but there is no set date for him to be ready to care for Mum again. It’s broken me already a few times and my elder brother too, I live nowhere near Leicester where they do, so I’m up and down the motorway most weekends.

The one thing that united me and my folks is our love of Leicester City, win, lose or draw. My brother was a glory boy and ditched them after we went down in 2002 to support Liverpool. Twat.

So all in all, the football isn’t everything, it’s amazing and wonderful when it goes well for me, but just another pain in the arse when it doesn’t.

Tomorrow, I’ll watch Manchester City and hope they get to the Champions League Final as my eldest son is a huge Man City supporter, they’re his distraction.
 
Well that certainly puts things into perspective.
I lost my Dad with Alzheimer's just over 2 years ago. He also lived with ulcerative colitis for nearly.30 years. When his dementia became more advanced I had to deal with his colitis on a number of occasions. When my dad went out he was always clued up as to where the toilets were. Crohn's is very unpleasant and a more severe version of ulcerated colitis, having dealt with my dad you have my sympathies with that Coatsworth.
 
Well that certainly puts things into perspective.
I lost my Dad with Alzheimer's just over 2 years ago. He also lived with ulcerative colitis for nearly.30 years. When his dementia became more advanced I had to deal with his colitis on a number of occasions. When my dad went out he was always clued up as to where the toilets were. Crohn's is very unpleasant and a more severe version of ulcerated colitis, having dealt with my dad you have my sympathies with that Coatsworth.
Thanks Brauny, it’s now just part of who I am, though like your Dad was, I am brilliant at lavatory reconnaissance
 
I think a lot of us have got life things more important than footy, and it's a nice distraction, which is why it's even more frustrating when it goes wrong.
I nearly died from Sepsis in 2009 (given a 50/50 chance of pulling through), every day since then is gravy, and i've seen both of my kids grow into adults.
My wife's cousin died unexpectedly at 49 in March. Two days before she flew out for the funeral my son was in a car accident (luckily no major injuries), etc etc.
My mum had the big c a few times but it eventually got her in the end, unlike my dad, she got to see us win the PL, but not the FA cup.
Life can be hard, but it beats the alternative.
Good luck with your struggles.
 
I think a lot of us have got life things more important than footy, and it's a nice distraction, which is why it's even more frustrating when it goes wrong.
I nearly died from Sepsis in 2009 (given a 50/50 chance of pulling through), every day since then is gravy, and i've seen both of my kids grow into adults.
My wife's cousin died unexpectedly at 49 in March. Two days before she flew out for the funeral my son was in a car accident (luckily no major injuries), etc etc.
My mum had the big c a few times but it eventually got her in the end, unlike my dad, she got to see us win the PL, but not the FA cup.
Life can be hard, but it beats the alternative.
Good luck with your struggles.
It’s probably why I’m always pessimistic about every game we play, I love the shock value of us occasionally winning.
Sorry to hear you’ve had a hard time of it too, I was at the funeral today of my old next door neighbour, died at 86 years old, Stockport County supporter for over 70 years and I think we suffer as Leicester supporters….
 
It’s always humbling to hear of the levels of sustained adversity that fellow Roofers manage to work their way through without rancour. And all the more galling to see us all steadfastly supporting a club and a team which, at present, have no stomach for any sort of resistance, however worthy.
 
All wrapped up in your own cruel you forget that adversary never sleeps and there's always someone worse off than you the city has helped me through the worst losing both Brother and eldest Lad so suddenly, now both in laws fighting cancer plus my dear wife's troubles the Roof does come in handy a hell of a lot to ease pain
 
In October 2015 my daughter, then 11, started having seizures and was diagnosed with epilepsy. After a MRI they found an inoperable, deep rooted buy benign brain tumour that was causing the seizures. Poor kid had just started high school and was constantly ending up in A and E, sometimes having multiple seizures each day. This came out of nowhere and hit us as a family for six with never ending appointments in Leeds and Wakefield. However, at that time LCFC decided that that was the season they were only going to go and win the Premier League and what a distraction that was, and such a beautiful moment when Wes lifted the trophy. Fast forward to 2023 and she comes with me to as many matches as she can, her love for the club been born in the years after the title win. She's not seizure free, will be on meds for life, has a VNS fitted to help control the epilepsy but has been to some fantastic matches home and away. She's at uni and has taken back some control of her life but now is on the verge of experiencing her first relegation. It's crap, but really not the end of the world is it?
 
Lost both parents in 2022 and have moved to sheltered accommodation, I can't walk only indoors and am Hemiplegic
 
It’s always humbling to hear of the levels of sustained adversity that fellow Roofers manage to work their way through without rancour. And all the more galling to see us all steadfastly supporting a club and a team which, at present, have no stomach for any sort of resistance, however worthy.
Totally agree with you, we are all linked by the same factor, everyone’s own lives have their own more important challenges
 
All wrapped up in your own cruel you forget that adversary never sleeps and there's always someone worse off than you the city has helped me through the worst losing both Brother and eldest Lad so suddenly, now both in laws fighting cancer plus my dear wife's troubles the Roof does come in handy a hell of a lot to ease pain
Absolutely. We’re all one here, irrespective of age and ailments
 
In October 2015 my daughter, then 11, started having seizures and was diagnosed with epilepsy. After a MRI they found an inoperable, deep rooted buy benign brain tumour that was causing the seizures. Poor kid had just started high school and was constantly ending up in A and E, sometimes having multiple seizures each day. This came out of nowhere and hit us as a family for six with never ending appointments in Leeds and Wakefield. However, at that time LCFC decided that that was the season they were only going to go and win the Premier League and what a distraction that was, and such a beautiful moment when Wes lifted the trophy. Fast forward to 2023 and she comes with me to as many matches as she can, her love for the club been born in the years after the title win. She's not seizure free, will be on meds for life, has a VNS fitted to help control the epilepsy but has been to some fantastic matches home and away. She's at uni and has taken back some control of her life but now is on the verge of experiencing her first relegation. It's crap, but really not the end of the world is it?
It’s an absolute motherfucker of a condition because it decides to what it wants when it wants. Glad she has some quality of life back and it’s not holding her that far back, my youngest son is about to experience his first relegation too.
 
Lost both parents in 2022 and have moved to sheltered accommodation, I can't walk only indoors and am Hemiplegic
Always in my thoughts Mick is how you still get on with things. I only know you through these message boards and your models but you are an inspiration to us all.
 
Well Guys my life is a bed of roses to some of yours, you have brought me down to earth with a bump. I take my hat off to you for making it through each day with what some of you are facing , sod the football lets be thankful for the wonderful memories we have, even Rogers cannot take them away.
 
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