AFCDorset
Roofer
My choices were made in good faith at the time. Anybody can be wise after the event.The disappointment of your choices is your own challenge. What anyone else discloses here is up to them.
Your lack of disclosure simply leads me to the assumption that like so many on here, you are somewhat challenged in your ability to express and defend your views. I mostly think you are a decent sort, but this does not help me to understand you.
Were you to be more open and expressive, I might get a better handle on just who you are, perhaps that is not something that you would want me, or others, to know?